Every year, thousands of people decide to switch to the so-called "proper diet", hoping for weight loss, more energy and better health. But instead of the desired changes, many face the opposite effect: weight remains the same, they constantly want to eat, fatigue appears, and breakdowns become almost inevitable. The reason is often not in weak willpower, but in the very logic of this approach.
One of the main problems is that there is simply no universal “right” diet. People’s bodies work differently: nutrition is affected by metabolic rate, hormonal background, level of physical activity, stress, quality of sleep and even lifestyle. What works well for one person may not give any results for another or may even make you feel worse. However, popular advice from social networks and the media often ignores these differences, offering the same templates for everyone.
Another common trap is a system of strict prohibitions. When a diet is built around a list of “don’ts,” it quickly becomes a source of psychological pressure. Forbidden foods begin to occupy a disproportionate amount of space in the mind, and any violation of the rules causes a feeling of guilt. As a result, “proper nutrition” often ends not with stable habits, but with breakdowns and overeating.
An equally important problem is excessive concentration on calories. Many people count every number, while not paying attention to the quality of food and the needs of the body. A deficiency of fats, proteins or trace elements can lead to chronic fatigue, hormonal disruptions and a constant feeling of hunger. Formally, calories are “normal”, but in practice - there is no strength and you want to eat constantly.
It is worth mentioning the emotional state separately. Stress, anxiety, fatigue and lack of sleep directly affect appetite and eating behavior. If a person is stuck in emotions or lives in a constant state of stress, no perfectly composed diet will give a stable result. Ignoring the psychological factor makes any nutrition system short-term.
Another reason for disappointment is the expectation of a quick effect. Many people give up on a new regimen after just a few weeks, not seeing immediate changes. At the same time, the body needs time to adapt to new habits. Real, sustainable results are not formed in a week or two.
As a result, "proper nutrition" stops working when it is perceived as a rigid system of rules and prohibitions. Instead, the effect appears when nutrition becomes a flexible way of life: taking into account individual needs, body signals and psychological state. It is not the ideal diet on paper, but the one that can actually be maintained for a long time, that gives results.

